At one point, I decided that everything I liked defined me and not a specific gender. But the moment you start looking at others from that perspective, it gets complicated and a bit sad. ‘Cause now I don’t understand what people mean when they say they feel feminine or masculine. And then you’re the odd one out until you find new people who share this idea. A new group. But that’s when you start creating another binary system. And that’s intriguing. It’s a spiral. I want to get as far away as possible from this construct, but we’re still living in a world with certain structures and agreements.